Dear Dierdre

My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning and when I confront him, he denies everything. What’s worse, everyone knows he cheats on me. It's so humiliating.
Also, since he lost his job 14 years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around, shoot pool with his buddies and have sex with cheap slags and hookers, while I work so hard to pay our bills.
Since our daughter went away to college and then married, he doesn't even pretend to like me, and hints that I may be a dirty lesbian. Please help. What should I do?

Dear Confused,
Grow up and dump him.You don't need him anymore. For gods sake woman, you're running for President of the United States, get a grip!